Libras have a reputation for being able to hide their emotions well. They're fairly intolerable to sadness and dissociate from their feelings when possible. It is important for her strong social and emotional relationships to provide her with support, as she may feel that the people she pushed away have chosen to ignore her. Looking back, she loved it when I was down, positively revelled in it!! my libra daughter who is 17 has buddied up with my libra mother and she doesnt understand the evil in my mother. A Libra woman may decide that it is acceptable to simply ignore or dismiss topics that she doesn't want to speak about. We are the empaths of the Zodiac.the unconscious rhythm of the universe connected to both sides of all things: Light/Dark - Good/Evil - Balance/Chaos - Moderation/Gluttony - Sanity/Insanity - Love/Hate - Beauty/Ugliness - Consciousness/Unconsciousness etc etc etc. I can't with him I just like his attractiveness. She uses people and shes a know it all. Show her that you are interested in spending time with her, as this will help you ensure that she does not create any relationships that will cause her to suffer in the future. As a typical Libran male, I am well aware of my faults. Without support, a Libra woman may begin to behave in a reckless manner. We need to hear someone saying out loud that the stuff is going to be okay, otherwise if we don't hear it, we don't consider it real. She may make the decision that she needs to make changes in regard to her social relationships. Libra: Don't leave them alone This can harm their relationship with others. RELATED: The Best & Worst Personality Traits Of The Capricorn Zodiac Sign. I know first hand I have a love:hate for Libra people. I pride myself on being truthful beyond anything. I SWEAR NEVER to go near this monsterous scale bearer again EVER in my living, breathing life. I, might be a good actor to not-so-close people, or to be more accurate, the mirror - to be exact same reflection of themselfs. Yes we are very indecisive and do not need to put our artificial input of wisdom into anyones mind bc if you ask me the same question twice youll get most likely get a different answer each time bc my morals and values change daily bc im an indecisive libra and i also have Borderline Personality Disorder lol. Im dealing with a libra mom. The women i deal w them at a distance. This is also called sosiopathic. Found them all to be selfish, controlling, manioulative, held grudges, calulating, little empathy towards others. i am sick of her controlling ways and i have decided that the scorpio cold shoulder is now here. If look from the good side we're doing you a favor before you meet our Lucifer side so you must be happy :). And then there are the decans of each zodiac sign, in which will defer from each other but still be somewhat the same of each other. Muahahahaha ;)~. They're good communicators and mediators; they know what words that all the patience and wise people would say, so you would believe them and even sympathise with them. They say Librans hate conflict and that we shy away from them, that's what others see, but what they don't realize is that we're fighting not to open our mouths out of psychologically, emotionally and spiritually dismantling you on the spot. Can breast milk come back after drying up? 04/13Libra This may be due to the fact that they are considered the "peaceful" sign of the zodiac, or because they are taught from a young age to keep their feelings hidden. Keep it light and simple. They don't do petty gossip; instead, they pride themselves on being a person people can confide in. But always react to things I say. my friends would say your mom is so nice. Munay, I am a Libra and I have to disagree on every aspects lol for me personally I do good until Im messed over as soon as you mess over me its over with. Librans are great at handling heartbreaks. I see a lot of my dark traits right there. So Im like that is the craziest thing. I am leaving him in God's hands because I know one day he will pay for all these sick acts he's committed. My advice is asking a scorpio why do they want this. I think Libra's are not all heartless, but they tend to be very practical and don't marinate in their emotions a lot. Irritability is the worst part I hate about myself. I much rather have Libra friends, lovers, co-workers, or acquaintances than any other sign. This will likely cause her career or relationships to suffer, as she may express herself in a manner that undermines her message. 10/17 libra seeking balance on September 06, 2016: I am a Libra male and lately I have been feeling disconnected from myself(sign). Often, they can feel hopeless, but they. When I meet new people, I always try and find a way of getting through the backdoor to their psyche - Astrology being my usual tool. ( I'm an aquarius.) Libra (September 23 - October 22) She may have a hard time . One moment she's all sweet and kind, the next she's picking fights with me. I, hate when dumb people try to judge or bully me. The alarm bells were ringing, I was no longer denying the gut and i made sure I got her whole astrology chart (on the pretense of performing a compatibility report for her new Prey). She only wants information to use against them. Scorpios I can handle, I can even handle a Scorpio Moon and an Aries Moon (I am heavily influenced by Pisces!) This is, of course, not ideal because the people around them don't know when a Libra's feelings are hurt. Once they see that another can give better, they will give themselves over to another (but they wont leave you, ever. she just says she did the best she could. I'm a libra myself. I feel like a pawn on a chess board to her. Libra women have some beauty about them because they're not trying too hard and keeping things easy. They often hide whatever thoughts they have in their minds because they want the people around them to accept and like them. Did not tap out because I do not believe in giving up easily in love. Following your star sign kind of feels like a guide into the real you. Things that does not warrant attention would end up being scrutinized and judged and harshest of words will be exchanged.its PATHETIC!!! Other zodiac signs may be a little bit more subtle about this. I've been taken advantage a o lot by just caring too much and i get furious i throw all that hate in my family witch they do not deserve it .but at the end family is my home is when i want people to understand me, to listen me when im angry when im sad when i need a advise .we need to take care of ourselves but we do not do it because we put in priority others . Libra women, when sad or upset, often find that their behaviors betray their emotional turmoil. As a Libran myself, I can see all my negative traits, for example; A technique that strangely comes naturally to me. I made decision to stop communicating with her. Why do you people interact with us? But again, these are the negative ones I'm talking about, of course. The cat she got for us 1month before she moved in liked me more than her so we got 1 more so they could play together that failed dead cat. Because they repress their pain and everybody else's, they have meltdowns. I must agree with fellow commentors that your distaste for this sign is merely a reflection of your own negativity and distorted observations. Should she be pressed, then she may behave in a manner that removes herself from that person's presence. This is very interesting; my mother is Libra and her vacillation between kind and cruel has kept me confused and emotionally bleeding for my entire almost 58 years on this earth. Our home is where we are the most stubborn, the most controlling, unyielding, vengeful selves. Don't take this as a sign of weakness or to underestimate use.v.e.r. They are highly intuitive and have a good grasp of psychology. One of the typical tactic of abusers things he did was try to "isolate" me from my friends and family. Guys you are reading an article about the DARK SIDE of Libra, of course you are going to read a lot of bad things! Done. Also..psychopathssociopaths.idiots..bad fathers.narcissistsare in all zodiacs.and for this writer to associate it with one particular zodiac..just means they have something against poor libras. I loved him at a distance because I was already attached and knew that being fully invested would break me even more. Librans are extroverted, cosy, and friendly people. I know a libra and she is very controlling. Becayse they like gossip so much, leave her dry with nothing to talk about. I am spiritual and often pray for guidance, when I start to second guess decisions or blame myself endlessly for my mistakes. Off course, I am not going to vent on strangers when I am wronged by a close one as it will not be justified. To be honest, I am more aware of my faults than of my strengths. While I am now guilty of generalizing also, I have to say that I know that depending on the time one is born under the Libra sign, as well as at which day in October can all play a part in a Libra being the exception to the rule as far as whether they exhibit classic Libra traits. So while the posted article was interesting, it basically told one aspect of a particularly warped type of Libra. I completely agree with this. It might take five years to get your own Libra male off your sofa. Sometimes, they feel emotionless and are unable to understand how and what they should express to their closest ones. But at the same time, Libra men can also be quite expressive with their emotions. He did work hard to improvise that space for me. I highly value: integrity, loyalty, honesty, and friendship. Grow up wife. When in discussion about this libra others who think they know her well will defend her and say she is gracious and unselfish. Super selfish people who never know what they want and live in fear of being alone, that's why they are easy to jump in a new relationship super fast. Even though they do love their mother, greatly, their elemental make up naturally gravitates towards mine, only on the basis that we understand each other on a level she will never understand, she is a Virgo sun/Cancer moon. We are easily hurt and scarred. Scorpio's passion can turn negative when they're feeling sad or depressed, causing them to become hostile, isolated, and have violent mood swings. We won't mind one bit. You probably deserved it etc. Sylvia Sky (author) from USA on October 08, 2016: Shewolf, it is painful for all when people don't understand us. They become more serious and tense, less tolerant, and are plagued with feelings of worry when thinking about the future. I used to call her a best friend but she is far from it. I am loyal and very protective of my friends and loved ones. Being an air sign and the only sign symbolized by an inanimate object, Libras lack genuineness and honesty as their opposite sign, Aries. They are so gracious and generous that friends are shocked when they first see Libra throw a tantrum, or realize that Libra told a lie. 2 more kids but from 2004 till upcoming divorce cold as ice towards me crazy. I honestly say right here and right now that i cant stand people under the sign of Libra (at least the ones i met)because they are fake, manipulative, major gossip. i was a good kid. In order to understand these triggers - today we present - why the signs get sad! But when i was over it. (4) I am skilled at photography. You can't be weak around these majestic women. So to say my ability to maintain connection is fucked is putting it mildly. I didn't thank god my parents were there to snap me out of it. Then he would get mad insanely mad when ignored. With their words, Libras can easily make a fool of belligerent and uncouth individuals who act as though the world revolves around them. im living with a libra female and i am done with her trying to control my life.. wanting to have things go well with her guys. "Whoa is me"..libra. So sometimes, they might hide their emotions to maintain their image. Libras create a conflict between two acquaintances who not normally have any conflict by Libra telling each person the other "said" something negative about them, when in fact, it never happened. When a Libra woman finds herself unable to focus on things that bring her pleasure, then she may become increasingly unsatisfied with her life. You will never be able to lie to us and get away with it.we can see the lies before they ever come out of your mouth. He can't see or type his sister's name in his FB IM? This funk can have lasting effects until a Capricorn really gets back to their old self. She avoided me like the plague, lol. Nosy and users of others' lives. Their status is important to them before everything, even before their family, they are treacherous and chasing sickly, dressing up as those who are fans so they do not have their own character, for them there is nothing to admire a man who slept with many girls, not considered to be a man, not cool - This is the person they imitate every day and every day until they meet someone greater than him in this field is very shallow, and thus inherently boring dressing up as other people, are subject in any depth. He will talk to you for hours about anything. She wants to feel free and keep it light, turning away naturally from people whose characteristics feel too negative or intense for her. Or so I thought. We libras are very difficult people for families to get along with. If I screw up I own up. He's friendly in that way which confuses me now a lot. And I took my chances and went to Japan, and for my surprise he had prepared a space for me to sleep with improvised curtains, giving me total privacy. I let her into my world denying my gut instinct and being the stupidly open person I can be, shared a few secrets - thankfully nothing shameful, just emotional things from my past. See additional information. When im being nice to others i feel like bringing them up is what i should do but in reality i may not actually like them and i feel guilty. Let him ask a few questions that were way out of line before lost my temper & told him to plz back the hell off. Been with one for 3 1/2 years. If you're giving him mixed signals, he's likely to hide his feelings even more. Mr. Libra 2 was so sly and subtle that it took me several months to figure out he was an abusive controoling person. 2023byTango Publishing Corporation All Rights Reserved. As a Libra male, i agree with most of this. Unfortunately, it can be hard for them to keep these emotions in, so those around them might feel backlash for a while. I. To have a happy and meaningful relationship with a Libra, you'll want to be there for them when they need you and treat them with kindness and respect. Libra shies away from conflict everywhereexcept within the family. Bingo my libra wife and my libra wife. The UKs WORST politicians are librans: Thatcher, Cameron and May. They will become silent and seem to be "elsewhere" instead of trying to deal with what's bothering them. I hate having fights in public. Please take time to read a few of her books to understand what she was really all about. I learned my lesson and I try to avoid Libra when is about relationship. I tend to feel deeply and take on too much responsibility. she was so nice to outsiders but treated my family and dad like dirt. When this occurs, she may choose to turn her attention elsewhere. Then i feel bad afterwards and consume chocolates laced with other people's feelings. BUT that problem is that othervise I won't be able to see him properly, everyday. I, do want to move out with my boyfriend because i have problem. I avoid it like the plague. Do Libras hide their emotions? I like to surround myself with positive happy people. Libra men are very indecisive. It allows us to be thankful for happiness when it occurs but too much of it can be unhealthy. Libra females are lost of words. OH YEAHHH The'yre some sexy bad azzes. The only reason I can think of is that, it is because we hide ourself so well in public that we carry all the annoyances and irritation back home, to a place we do not need to hide and while at home, the slightest irritation can wreck havoc. he is a great father and husband. Often, the question "Why?" Libra women are sad and insufferable. We can see all sides to all things.all dimensions.all patterns..all rhythms.all nuances. Hello, i am a libra woman Oct 16th, so kinda right there in the middle and i wont lie and say i wasnt offended by this article bc yes! She recently sent me a negative text about her husband. , Last Updated on October 31, 2020 by Sloane Marie. I guarantee there was as much yelling in his home as there is in every Libra home. We expect people to act gracefully and with consideration of one another.we hate people that act like mindless brutes and we can not stand those that take advantage of others for their own gain. After a while i did not allow him to do much for me. Most good tennis players are Librans and are very bad losers. yes every sign has a dark side. They see everyone as mindless and feel called to enlighten them. My worst experiences involved 3 different Libras. However, this may cause her to push people away or make people think that she no longer likes them. Due to all that sugar and junk they regulary eat. But he was nice and attentive. The men. We have been doing that since 1989 to 2004 we did hookup a few times before 1996 none since then no longer felt right. Here's why. The one I know best is so selfish, vindictive that she doesn't care who's life she ruins while in the process of getting what she wants. Buts its a ruse. This may cause her to re-evaluate the goals and ideologies that she maintains. I have a Libra sister. I'm not. The ones i know are just crazy,they put other's in danger with their pseudo judgements,cool you don't like drama,then think better if you don't like to see people suffer,no wonder aries is the opposite,you have to be ignorant and strong like an aries to let go so easy of so much bull a libra can ask for. All that's left (like the bad traits mentioned above which seemed to me like traits of a dangerous personality disorder) is formed depending on countless variables (the way one was raised, experiences etc..) we do have a dark side, but we don't all react the same way. Thats how you deal w a libra. So if i find your chatty, im out of here. When it comes to you, on the other hand, he isn't reluctant to stand up for you. This can harm their relationship with others. Always. The males appear to be charming, romantic and very friendly. Im scorpio. Replytovengefulauthor on January 09, 2017: As someone that has done a lot of astrology reading I can admit I know some of these traits can be very true of a libra. Cancer. I am the oldest daughter in my family I have 2 Libra sisters they only see their pain, their personal gain. They become anxious, isolated, and tend to "feel everything" in an attempt to cope with this giant wave of emotion. Now he lives in Japan and if I ask him to get me anything from there he would send me by post, or any info about computers, or hints on how to solve computer problems etc. If you make the point to be present in her life, then she will appreciate the support that you are offering her. 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